Month of the Military Child defined

What does it mean to be a military child? At a very early age, these children learn that a parent may often go absent.
This is a new concept for children in general, because, as all parents know, the world revolves around them (children).
As a result, military children learn to be flexible, outgoing, and independent.
What does all of this mean? Children have to learn to be flexible with their schedules. When parents deploy for extended
periods, some children are expected to fulfill roles often held by the absent parent(s). Simultaneously, these children are
forced to cope with the loss of the absent parent. When relocating, children leave friends, family, schools, churches, and
other activities behind; often times, without input in the moving process.
Children also need to be socially healthy in order to integrate into their new neighborhoods, schools, churches etc. It is
important that the children feel safe in their new surroundings. Military children are encouraged to display a sense of independence
and courage in order to make the first step in meeting new friends and getting involved in activities. It takes time to make new adjustments
but military children appear to be more adaptable than adults. We as adults could learn from our children if we could just spare some time to
learn from our military children.
Established in 1986, by former Defense Secretary Caspar Weinberger, April is the Month of the Military Child. Month of the Military
Child provides an opportunity to pay tribute to our nation’s youngest heroes. To recognize the unique challenges and struggles they face as
well as acknowledge their contributions and unconditional support of our troops. Throughout April, Fleet & Family Support Programs will be
hosting and partnering with other organizations to hold events to celebrate military children. For more information, please visit http://www.navylifepnw.com
or contact us at (866) 854-0638.
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